Over the weekend,  j was privileged to go to a cooperate event. Let me not even go into details of the ambience that was there. The food and menu reflected the high endedness of the place. The waitresses spoke verr nice rusungu, and were well dressed. Let me not mention how expensive the food was, despite being in very small portions. For instance, the kaugali was really small, the size of a patco,  and then the beef was maybe juicy three pieces of beef, I guess the extra amount was to cater for the ambience, yaani the air there was different from hii ya githurai yenye nimezoea. Anyway, that's not the story I wanted to talk about.  This place had a policy, in very gigantic letters, "NO OUTSIDE FOOD ALLOWED", yes. Anyway, I really beat the luku,  until it cried. I had really dressed to kill such that I could be charged for murder. My dress code, which reflected the importance of the event, earned me a new crush.  Guess what, a bouncer fell for me. Now, kama you've neve

A wise once said, growing up is the most difficult thing because we become what we once so harshly judged, and looking back , I couldn't agree less. Somehow, my adult life style, my choices, my friends, my career(probably), is a path I never knew I'd tread upon. But then, we have to live with the consequences of every choice we make, and I've come to the realization that don't judge others for change is the only constant in life ♠️

I know I fail a lot  And I know I will never be good enough I believe you can not save every bit of me And I tend to make stupid mistakes Sometimes am even scared of myself  I curse myself for being the opposite of who I want to be in my head Am sorry but who I am right now is not even half of it The horrors, The insults thrown at us as kids stuck in us When I lift my chin to look into the mirror Two different species My subconscious rases with my heartbeat I think am turning into the opposite of who I want to be Am turning into the person who made me write my 1st suicidal note Needs are driving me endlessly crazy And the more I grow the more needs  I wish to turn back the hands of time so that as a kid they'd hold me Tight enough that I feel secure enough I wish I had someone in my past who'd last till my death One who'd always be there for me if need be One who knows how I feel without asking  One who'd call me just to say 'hey, life is hell but we're in this

INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY is celebrated on November 19 and celebrates men's positive contributions to their communities and families. It also promotes positive role models and increases awareness about men's well-being.  Giving a talk or conducting an activity before or on International Men's Day is a great way to get people talking about men. Socially, men have little to no support when it comes to addressing the challenges they face. We partnered with Amazing Minds Africa.  (a Kenyatta University students association) to have an intergenerational dialogue under the theme, Promoting a positive conversation about men, manhood, and masculinity. We were pleased to have Rev Benson Okeyo and Mr. Dannish Odongo coming to speak purpose and positivity to the young men and ladies who came to mark this day.  At ELF-Africa , we are committed to creating platforms for young men to engage, a safe space where they can share their views on men's issues and experiences through our M

"Breathe,let go.And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure, Don't keep stressing and thinking too much, Live and enjoy the moments, Knowing that not everything will work out for you, Knowing that you can't be for everyone, At times you will fail, But at this times, don't give up, Just hang in there, The light is not at the end of the tunnel, The light is within us So keep shining  Keep being you and being true to yourself  You're amazing  You're love, Keep going  Love and hugs

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